“Spiritual Dating” or “Conscious Dating” is an enlightened way of meeting and dating। There are no rules or expectations, and it’s about being true to oneself and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results! As we raise our vibrational frequencies and approach fifth dimensional living, it’s more and more important to practice Spiritual Dating with respect to meeting a life partner as our thoughts and feelings are manifesting extremely fast!
The 6 Keys to Spiritual Dating:
#1 REMEMBERING OUR DIVINITY:
Realize that every person is a DIVINE ASPECT and before incarnating, we agreed to forget our Divinity। We chose to be here on Earth for this incredible time in history, so be joyful and grateful for ‘waking up’ and being part of this planetary ascension! Loving ourselves unconditionally and letting ourselves express this tremendous JOY that is our Divine Essence is the basis of Spiritual Dating। Allow this love of self and joy to radiate outward and attract the same। It’s much healthier and fulfilling when two souls come together in joy and bliss rather than in desperation and loneliness!
#2 BEING PRESENT and OPEN:
When we are truly PRESENT in the moment, we are OPEN to meeting the love of our life because we are paying attention. Enjoy each encounter, whether or not that person is a potential mate. When standing in line at the grocery store, book store, post office… (anywhere!), pass up reading the magazines or thinking about what you are going to make for dinner. Instead, be receptive and conscious of who might be coming into your space. ENJOY the moment you are experiencing NOW! Be bold and say hi to people, initiate conversations and SMILE! One of the most efficient ways to meet other spiritual, “awake” people is to join an online dating site like http://www.spiritualsingles.com/ where there is a large pool of conscious singles to meet. Make sure to be pro-active by initiating contact with other members.
#3 BEING REALISTIC:
Chemistry comes in all shapes and sizes. Realize that our “types” have most likely been created by mass media programming and therefore the collective consciousness. Break free of this illusion, the matrix, if you will, and feel someone’s SOUL, their “beingness”, their heart. Our life partner may not look like the “type” we have been conditioned to see as attractive. They may be taller, shorter, thinner, or thicker, so let go of the attachment to how someone appears and look deeper. As we thoroughly enjoy and experience every person we encounter, we can appreciate their uniqueness and see their Divinity. Listening to our guidance and knowing that we may be drawn to someone because they are our life partner, or maybe for another reason, perhaps they have some important insight or information for us.
#4 BEING REAL:
Being real means letting one’s guard down and getting out of ego; being oneself without trying to empress or show off. When in a relationship, true selves and personalities are eventually revealed and observed by our partner, so it’s more efficient to be genuine from day one. By expressing our true selves, we send out that energy to the quantum field and magnetize a partner that is also being REAL!
#5 LISTENING:
When on a date, practice active LISTENING. Instead of planning out what we are going to say next, or worrying about how we look, active listening involves being present and focused on the other person while they are speaking. With an open heart, listen and feel what the other person is saying. Be there for them 100%. When talking, speak from the heart, and allow the conversation to flow naturally. Allow time for silence and just being together. Remember to breathe and relax.
#6 STAYING IN THE FLOW:
Getting out of our head and following our heart, our feelings and the current energy is the essence of staying in the flow. When we are tapped into our Divinity, we know what to do, where to go, who to talk with etc... When in the flow, there is no ‘thinking things through’ for hours, days or weeks….it just happens. It’s part of being present and open. Being open to whatever is in our highest and best for each moment and trusting that we are being perfectly guided by our higher selves (that part of us that always remembers its Divine connection), is the key to staying in the flow. Letting go of expectations and preconceived ideas about what something “should” look like, or how something “should” be is essential.
Spiritually dating creates a fun, enriching experience to be savored and thoroughly enjoyed। When these six keys are put into practice, results happen quickly, and it’s possible to be experiencing a blissful, devoted, loving relationship in no time, so ENJOY the process!
Thursday, June 18, 2009
Sensuously Celebrating Being Green! Eco-Sexy Dating Tips, By Jill Crosby
Whether single or in a relationship, we can always bring more sensuality into our lives….while keeping it green!
We recommend supporting local businesses by purchasing the items below at your nearest earth-friendly co-op or green grocer. Buy organic or GMO-free when you can. Remember, it’s all about the allure of caring for the planet and each other.
Here are some natural aphrodisiacs to enjoy with your date:
· Avocadoes – Hopefully, on your trip to the farmers’ market you have loaded up on sexy, succulent, fruits and vegetables and you haven’t forgotten a few avocadoes. Yes! This smooth, silky, vitamin E filled, emollient, is perfect for rubbing body parts, boosting arousal, and adding intensity, for a slippery edible adventure. After rinsing off, you will both notice how moist and sexy your skin feels.
· Cornstarch – Buy it organic and from the bulk bins. This surprisingly sexy ingredient feels like liquid silk. On a hot day, start by massaging your date’s/mate’s back, work up to a fully body massage when things start to heat up. Let the pleasures flow.
· Tomatoes – red, succulent, and juicy! Often coined as “the apple of love,” one juicy bite and you’ll see why. Buy these vine ripened at your next farmers’ market. Bring a basket made by your local tribe and shop together. Feed it to your date and see how this erotic fruit really heats things up. The slurp alone can get you hungry for more. Make sure you have a nice, soft, organic, cloth napkin at hand to continue this erotic pampering.
· Melted, Free-Trade, Organic, Rainforest Chocolate – Support the free global market by heating up some rich, dark chocolate, placing a cup full next to your date, and begin tantalizing them through their nose. Nothing’s better than dipping fruit or fingers into thick, warm chocolate and having a sensuous tongue lap it up. Make sure you wear a sexy, little apron with nothing on underneath while you stir and heat up the chocolate. Use your fingers to write something erotic on your date’s skin, then erase it with your tongue. Remember, chocolate contains phenyl ethylamine (PEA), the same “loving” chemical that our body naturally produces during the first moments of falling in love (or lust). Edibly erotic!
· Homemade Granola – After your erotic adventures, you both may be ready for something a bit more hearty but not too heavy. Try some organic homemade granola or make it together. Granola, made with organic oats and grains, is rich in magnesium and other healthy vitamins and minerals. Add some seeds, nuts, and dried fruits. Aim and toss it into each others’ mouth, whoever catches the most gets a fantasy fulfilled by the other.
· Seasonal Berries – Pick juicy, ripe, local berries that are small and delicate. They are just right to plop into a waiting mouth. Savor the juices, feel the berries in the midst of a sensuous long kiss. If you are feeling very berry-licious and a bit mischievous, smash them on each other and take pictures of these juicy designs before biting and licking them off each other.
· Sensual Aromatherapy Oils – The top three sexiest smells are citrus, cinnamon, and vanilla. Mix all three together and make your date go wild with desire. You can ask your date what their favorite smell is, go to your local, healthy living store and match some essential oils to it. Douse yourself with it in the most erotic places before each date and become irresistible.
· Green Your Bedroom! Create the mood by burning eco-friendly candles, saving electricity. Bee’s wax candles are the best, they burn clean and smell delicious. Choose a natural lubricant and avoid petroleum-based and artificially flavored products. Try “Sensua” organic personal lubricants. You can purchase condoms that support sustainable use of the Amazon rainforest called Natex. Go for eco-friendly super sexy lingerie from GreenKnickers and People Tree for women, and for men try Red Dog or Cottonfield.
Have fun!
We recommend supporting local businesses by purchasing the items below at your nearest earth-friendly co-op or green grocer. Buy organic or GMO-free when you can. Remember, it’s all about the allure of caring for the planet and each other.
Here are some natural aphrodisiacs to enjoy with your date:
· Avocadoes – Hopefully, on your trip to the farmers’ market you have loaded up on sexy, succulent, fruits and vegetables and you haven’t forgotten a few avocadoes. Yes! This smooth, silky, vitamin E filled, emollient, is perfect for rubbing body parts, boosting arousal, and adding intensity, for a slippery edible adventure. After rinsing off, you will both notice how moist and sexy your skin feels.
· Cornstarch – Buy it organic and from the bulk bins. This surprisingly sexy ingredient feels like liquid silk. On a hot day, start by massaging your date’s/mate’s back, work up to a fully body massage when things start to heat up. Let the pleasures flow.
· Tomatoes – red, succulent, and juicy! Often coined as “the apple of love,” one juicy bite and you’ll see why. Buy these vine ripened at your next farmers’ market. Bring a basket made by your local tribe and shop together. Feed it to your date and see how this erotic fruit really heats things up. The slurp alone can get you hungry for more. Make sure you have a nice, soft, organic, cloth napkin at hand to continue this erotic pampering.
· Melted, Free-Trade, Organic, Rainforest Chocolate – Support the free global market by heating up some rich, dark chocolate, placing a cup full next to your date, and begin tantalizing them through their nose. Nothing’s better than dipping fruit or fingers into thick, warm chocolate and having a sensuous tongue lap it up. Make sure you wear a sexy, little apron with nothing on underneath while you stir and heat up the chocolate. Use your fingers to write something erotic on your date’s skin, then erase it with your tongue. Remember, chocolate contains phenyl ethylamine (PEA), the same “loving” chemical that our body naturally produces during the first moments of falling in love (or lust). Edibly erotic!
· Homemade Granola – After your erotic adventures, you both may be ready for something a bit more hearty but not too heavy. Try some organic homemade granola or make it together. Granola, made with organic oats and grains, is rich in magnesium and other healthy vitamins and minerals. Add some seeds, nuts, and dried fruits. Aim and toss it into each others’ mouth, whoever catches the most gets a fantasy fulfilled by the other.
· Seasonal Berries – Pick juicy, ripe, local berries that are small and delicate. They are just right to plop into a waiting mouth. Savor the juices, feel the berries in the midst of a sensuous long kiss. If you are feeling very berry-licious and a bit mischievous, smash them on each other and take pictures of these juicy designs before biting and licking them off each other.
· Sensual Aromatherapy Oils – The top three sexiest smells are citrus, cinnamon, and vanilla. Mix all three together and make your date go wild with desire. You can ask your date what their favorite smell is, go to your local, healthy living store and match some essential oils to it. Douse yourself with it in the most erotic places before each date and become irresistible.
· Green Your Bedroom! Create the mood by burning eco-friendly candles, saving electricity. Bee’s wax candles are the best, they burn clean and smell delicious. Choose a natural lubricant and avoid petroleum-based and artificially flavored products. Try “Sensua” organic personal lubricants. You can purchase condoms that support sustainable use of the Amazon rainforest called Natex. Go for eco-friendly super sexy lingerie from GreenKnickers and People Tree for women, and for men try Red Dog or Cottonfield.
Have fun!
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Welcome to my blog. I'm excited to do this and will be posting articles, thoughts, channelings and ramblings about spiritual dating, love, being conscious and enjoying life. I encourage and look forward to your comments!
Thanks for visiting.
Sending you MUCH LOVE!
Jill Crosby
Owner/Founder http://www.spiritualsingles.com/
Welcome to my blog. I'm excited to do this and will be posting articles, thoughts, channelings and ramblings about spiritual dating, love, being conscious and enjoying life. I encourage and look forward to your comments!
Thanks for visiting.
Sending you MUCH LOVE!
Jill Crosby
Owner/Founder http://www.spiritualsingles.com/
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